I appreciate Eve Ensler’s TED talks, and your thoughts above.

I invite you to consider:
Many women also have “strong biological compulsions toward reproduction”. They often express it differently from men within social structure.

Two different drives can be in play in the male compulsion for sex. Some, granted, do want to reproduce: some others (who have taken steps such as vasectomy) still have the drive for sex - without no intent to reproduce.

There are also times when women say “yes” and men say “no”. These could be outside your vision or paradigm, and they do happen.

Caution is tied closely to responsibility.

Both sexes are commonly taught that their reproductive organs are “disgusting”. It is not uncommon to see the negative reference many women have toward their menses: a natural and beautiful process unaccepted and shameful by much of society. It perpetuates a form of violence toward each other.

An “Us vs. them” paradigm is harmful to all, for in essence, we harm ourselves with each act of conquering and scarcity we commit in the world.

My daughter was doing her high school algebra homework. Some pop music was blasting away in her room along. I asked, “How can you think with all that noise?” and she replied “Actually, I can’t think about math without it.” I asked what she meant, and her answer was, “It must be because I’m an adolescent. You see, we adolescents are bothered by all sorts of irrational phobias and sexual thoughts and social concerns—and I’m the one who my friends are always asking for help. So I find that my mind keeps getting occupied with thinking about their problems. But when I turn on this loud music stuff, all of social concerns go away — and then I’m free to think about the binomial theorem and stuff like that.”

This looks as though the pop-music somehow saturates (or anesthetizes) her “social thinking” resources, and they can’t interfere or compete with her math-related processes.